Thursday, February 24, 2011

Fun Puzzle



I got this puzzle a few days ago from my mother and father-in-law, along with their super yummy homemade granola that I can never seem to make right. The puzzle was easy to put together, and its just cute to have around.


Also, a quick picture of a dishrag I completed as a knitting project. I finished it back in January, but never posted it. Not a great picture but I just wanted to get it up here.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Yarn Along {One}

I am trying something new out. I found a web group/blog that posts what they're reading and projects they're working on. The majority of the projects consist of knitting and crocheting, but occasionally you find other crafts as well. I figured with all the projects on my to-do list, this may help me get projects done. You can follow her blog here at Yarn Along .

I decided the first project I wanted to work on would be a crocheted shawl. I originally got this project as a birthday gift from my sister-in-law. The kit included a beautiful bamboo hook, two spools of yarn, and the instructions. Don't ask why I hadn't gotten to it sooner, because I have no idea.


I started working on it two nights ago. To say I was aggravated is putting it lightly though. The hook is a 9.00m hook, and the yarn is more like thick thread. I knew the patter said it was an "open/airy" shawl, but wow, I could barely make the chain for this. Mind you, I've been crocheting since I was in grade school thanks to my Mom showing me how. Its what I did on my hour long bus rides (and read). I'm sure most everyone can agree that working the second row is generally the most "irritating," but the chain, by far the simplest! I could make out front from back. It was constantly twisting. When I finally made it to the second row, the only thing I can say it reminded me of was a bunch of pretzels. I looked at the pattern again thinking maybe I was doing something wrong, and nope. Even better, the pattern was categorized as easy. At least I knew that it wasn't me, it was just the thread/hook combination that was frustrating. I did eventually get it, and once I finished the second row, I put it down for the night...


... just in the wrong spot.

My three year old daughter decided that it was just too pretty NOT to play with. I found it in undone, and in one giant knot. No, I wasn't happy. I put it away, and later last night, with the help of my husband, untangled the mess. It took close to an hour, and I wasn't willing to cut away at the knots just to make it easier. I got the chain and the second row done quite quickly. After that, the pattern started moving quickly. I didn't put it down until my sixth row (or something like that).


As far as reading goes, I'm currently reading Ask Supernanny: What Every Parent Wants to Know by Jo Frost. Not that I really think my kiddo is that much of a pain, but a suggestion here and there can't hurt. I'm really picking up some good ideas, and she conveys it in ways that make it seem completely doable.

Monday, February 21, 2011

Projects List

I'm a crafter. Its what I do. I crochet. I scrapbook. I quilt and sew. I knit and paint (two new ones). I use my hands. I like to put myself into the gifts I give those I love. Its cheesey, I know, but it's me. I'm also "frugal" (read: CHEAP). If I see something at a store or in a book, I would rather buy the materials, or recycle things at home, and make it myself. I get an immense sense of satisfaction from completing numerous projects. Here's my problem. I have too many projects, too many crafts. I want Ellie to love crafting as much as I do, but I don't really want her to get into the my habit of numerous incomplete projects, or getting the materials for the projects, and then not doing them at all. I've got patterns, fabric, yarn, canvases, paints, and the list goes on and on. As of right now, here is my to do list of projects:

Five paintings
Ellie's baby book
Addyson's scrap baby quilt (for mandi)
Crocheted christmas cards
3 ragdolls
4 quilted wall hangings
Quilted table runner
Crocheted lace shawl
Sampler quilt
Crocheted Rectangular Granny Square Blanket
Sew Black summer pants
various scrapbook pages

Some of these things are things that can obviously wait, but I know I need to set a priority list to get them done. I also know that I need to get them done, period. My goal right now is to finish these projects, post pictures throughout and at the completion, and not pick up any new crafts until they're done!

This is going to be a good, and PRODUCTIVE, crafting year! I can feel it!

Tom's Home

The kids waiting for their Daddies
B Co 201st, Tom is 2nd squad, 1st soldier

The reunion


If anyone has been following my facebook page, you will know that Tom, and the 201st, has made it home safe and sound. They came home 1 yr exactly from the day they left, Valentine's Day. Granted, Ellie and I didn't get the actual reunion until 1 o'clock in the morning on the 15th, but we survived. We had been told that the unit's plane would be arriving around 10 0r 10:30, so Ellie and I decided to go to the reception a little early and help out if needed. Nothing was needed of course, but there were lots of kids for Ellie to play with, including Lily. Lily and Ellie used to play together all the time, but for relationships going their separate ways (i.e. Mommy became somewhat of a hermit), Ellie didn't go play that often. When they saw each other, the reunion was so sweet and touching. I loved it, and honestly felt bad that I hadn't given Ellie more opportunities to play with Lily. It was quite entertaining to watch two little bossy girls try to boss the other one around, and neither would give in. Ellie is DEFINITELY my child!

I was expecting that she would be cranky and a handful to, for lack of a better word, deal with. She was awesome. Of course I had to use my "mommy voice" a couple of times, but I was expecting so much worse. She played, and laughed, and danced all night until the guys came home. When they were getting us ready for their arrival, she was so excited. Of course, his particular company came in last, but he's tall, so he was one of the first of that group to come in. I had her standing on my lap so she could see better, and as soon as she saw him, she yelled, "There's my Daddy! I see him! He's home!!" It was so sweet. She kept waving at him, and yes, he was smiling, but trying to maintain his bearing. It was relatively quiet, and she looks down at me and says, "Mommy, he's not waving back at me. He doesn't see me." I'm assuming Tom heard her because as she was turning around, I could see he was in fact waving at her, just down at his hip. I pointed this out to her, and she just lit up, just knowing that Daddy knew she was there. It was such a heartfelt moment.

Once the families were allowed to "find their soldier," I let Ellie bolt off to find Daddy. It took no time at all! She was so happy to be with Daddy. She really did miss him. He even offered to take her to the bathroom when she announced that she had to "pot-ty" (She says this super proper now, its really cute.) Unfortunately, they only had one stall, so he brought her back to me and I took her. We gathered up all of Tom's belongings and headed home.

I am so happy about the relationship between Ellie and Tom. I had been really worrying about how it was going to be. I know some child shy away, but Ellie is all about Daddy now. There are still times when she wants Mommy over Daddy, but I'm expecting that. I even went out shopping for a number of hours yesterday and left Daddy to take care of Ellie on his own. Honestly, the time kinda got away from me, but when I called to let him know I was on my way home, everything had been going great. He got her down for a nap. They had been playing. He was actually in the middle of making dinner when I called. I was speechless.

The transition has been much smoother than I expected, and for that I am very, VERY grateful.

"Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations." ~Faith Baldwin

Child Rearing

I've been reading up on a book my mother bought for both my sister and I to help with child rearing. Its the Supernanny's book. I have gotten some decent ideas, but I've also realized I'm doing a pretty damn good job too :) My mother didn't buy us these books to tell us that we needed help bringing up our children, but more as a helpful resource. I think, and I think I can safely speak for my sister as well, that our parents did a great job bringing us up, and preparing us. Although some of their methods are methods we pick and choose from, I still feel as though I am who I thanks to their guidance, if not entirely.
As child-less adults we have these huge expectations of what our children will and will not do. They will eat all their vegetables. They won't make a ruckus in the grocery store. They will be exceedingly polite to their elders. We see the families with loud and obnoxious kids and think, oh, my child will never be like that. Why don't they just... (fill in the blank)?

And then we become parents. There is no manual. There is no one holding our hands telling us what to do when YOUR child is unruly. There is no one there looking over your shoulder, giving you a pat on the back to say, great job. Its all instinct. Its all the wisdom from your family. Its the sympathy of other parents. No one can understand what it's like to be a parent until you are a parent. Its that simple.
As we look at our infants sleeping, we think, wow, how did this happen? Why did God choose to bless me with this beautiful child? How am I going to do this? Will a be everything I need to be for this child? The simple answer? Yes. God knew you could do this, and wanted you to experience your own child. He wanted you to know true selfless sacrifice. He wanted you to know how to love more than you ever thought possible.
During those first few months, we're exhausted, hungry, and sometimes resentful. And then you watch your baby smile at you for the first time. Or you see her roll over for the first time. Or you listen to her babbles as she "talks" back to you. Yes, you don't get to sleep until whenever, or for as long as you'd like. Yes, feeding an infant is time consuming. Yes, you can't go out and do some of the things you want to do because you're a parent now. But ask yourself... Isn't it all worth it? You know, deep down, the answer will always be yes.


Fast forward a few months, and they're walking... no running! How did this happen? Just a mere two months ago, they could barely crawl, and now they're running from you? You're having to use "no" more often. You're learning that you are completely and utterly wrapped around that kiddo's little finger. Now you're worried, am I spoiling her? How do I know when to deprive her and when to give in? They have no idea they're being spoiled (at least not yet). They are still ridiculously excited about every toy, every treat they get. They are loved, and that's all that matters.


You get to witness this little human being discover the world. You get to see how they interact with all the things we take for granted, like the feel of soft, cool grass between your toes on a hot summer day. You get to see the pure amazement in a child's face when they see the colors of the clouds. You get to hear the pure joy and glee coming from a child's innocent laugh as a dog licks her cheek. Parenting is a blessing regardless of anything else.
As they grow, so does their independence, their individuality. How many times have I found myself looking at the clock, thinking, is it bedtime yet? How does this child keep going? I never had that much energy! A lie, I know, but I don't remember it! Toddlers/Preschoolers have a growing vocabulary, that includes backtalk. How you discipline your child is personal. Do you choose timeouts, or spankings? Do you exclude them from activities? Do you ignore it and hope the unwanted behavior goes away on its own, hoping its just a phase? I've done them all! You are the only one who has to be with your child for extended periods of time. What you and your partner decide is the best approach for disciplining that child is what you have decided. As long as you're not physically or emotionally abusing your child, you don't have to defend your choice. Sometimes you realize that one approach was working for a while, and now its not. You adapt. You make it work. You establish that you love them, but that you are still in control. Hard? Without question. My child is sometimes an angel one hour and a little imp the next. There are so many questions that come from bringing a child into this world. Most answers are found through trial and error. Listen to the suggestions and advice of those before you. Take them seriously. Never listen to someone when they tell you you're a bad parent. Let the grandparents be grandparents. Let them love watching you go through the same things they went through with you. Take it with a grain of salt if you must.

But always remember, its always worth it. Always remember, the love you feel for your child cannot be broken. Always remember, you're child loves you too.
Also, just wanted to point out that this is all just my opinion of things. I don't study children or parenting. I'm experiencing this whole thing just like the rest of you. I just had a few things on my mind that I felt like writing about.